in 2019, Wellness is my portion. I will settle for nothing less. currently, i am building a wellness team to carry me through the new year. in doing so, what i am finding is that Black Women are my safe place. Black Women have raised me educated me loved me inspired me healed me corrected me disciplined me encouraged me Black Women have given me permission to be myself. to show up, to be free. Black Women have challenged me to think differently. to center myself. to not take bullshit. for that, i will always honor, love, cherish, and respect Black Women. i will always wear this beautiful skin proudly, and will always be proud to be identified as a Black Woman. We are Magic...always have been...always will be. 💖 ~Lauren Ashley
So, for some time now, I have wanted to say a few things about child support. Didn't know if I should rant on FB (I am not a twitter user), or post a blog. Obliviously, I decided to go with the blog, just because I wanted to make sure my thoughts came across clear. Let me start by saying this is NOT to bash anyone, but to offer a different perspective. I hear so many men (and some women) talk negatively about child support and the women who receive it, and honestly, I think it is nonsense. So, hear we go... A note, I will refer to parents as custodial and non-custodial, because I realize that although we are always talking about women who receive child support, the reverse could be true. A little background. I am a mother of 2, and my children have different dads. 1 pays child support, the other does not. I do not believe that all non-custodial parents should be on court ordered support. If you are responsible enough to give the custodial parent, a set amount (20% in Illinois