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Back for the 3rd time!

Hello!

I'm Lauren, and this is about the 3rd time I have tried my hand at blogging! I am back because I realize how therapeutic writing is for me, and because I want to get my thoughts out! (mainly this, LOL). I live a busy life, and so do my friends, so a lot of times when I have something to say, they may not be available. So, I figured, what better way to get my thoughts out than to share them with the world (or at least my extended circle who decides to read this)...

There is no rhyme or reason, no real theme, and I will only post as I feel, so don't look for anything consistent. I just want a place to release. Some days it may be about motherhood, other about my career...I am sure you will hear about my dating woes from time to time as well. So, don't expect anything fancy over here, just my random thoughts and unpredictable mumbling's...

I hope you'll subscribe and join me on my journey through life.

~Lauren

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